May it be with love, even if it is a single encounter

Abstract

In this writing we start from the idea of ​​a system of patriarchal dominance, to later address how this system has shaped people's feelings and emotions, therefore, they are also part of a classification of emotions corresponding to women or men.
We propose Comprehensive Sexual Education (hereinafter ESI) as an instance of training young people in values ​​and practices that allow them to live sexuality in a responsible, pleasant and safe way; not only as an unavoidable dimension of human experience, but also as a field of recognition and exercise of rights.
In this workshop we use visual technical tools to discuss consent, in an attempt to emphasize the importance of autonomy and communication in it. This tool consists of a video where an analogy with drinking a cup of tea is presented, which indicates that both consent to drink tea and sexual or intimate interactions must be voluntary, based on an informed decision, communicated in advance. clear and continuous manner, which can be withdrawn at any time, and which is not transferable to another activity.
Furthermore, we propose the idea of ​​carrying out sexual encounters with feeling, a bodily and emotional feeling. And in that emotional register, self-love and love conceptualized as respect, trust, affection, intimacy, care for the other person and self-care; the latter considered as rights inherent to all people. And that ensures a way of bonding that is respectful and free of violence.